Which one is 'More Valuable'

33. Al-Furqan  : 74

Rabbanaa hablanaa min azwaa jinaa wa dzurriyyaatinaa qurrata a'yuniw-waj 'alnaa lil-muttaqiina imaamaa.

"O our Lord! Grant us in our mates and offspring and the coolness of eyes and make us a leader of those who guard themselves against evil"  

           Mind in the days ahead, the desire to feel loved and to love is more alive. The desire to take care of a person and being taken care of someone. The desire to find someone to be called love that will be a good listener and a loyal adviser. The desire to get someone who can finally touch you and stay with you forever. 

          I have a friend once told me that he holds a phrase sounds 'Live today like there is no tomorrow', derived from Buddhist philosophy. Unfortunately, he defines the phrase more to sex; Having sex without a legal relationship through marriage. They prefer to lose virginity to the person who has not definitely be theirs. So, what will you leave to your spouse after marriage later? When everything is owned and viewed by those temporary. 

     Yes. It can not be denied marriage today is requiring a lot of money. However, all religions promote moderation in marriage, but to ban waste. Indeed, it is hard to resist the desire. Something very valuable will be very difficult to be preserved until the time, but once it gone forever it will gone. There is no loss, you lose it in the perfect way. 

     

     Today, people question the problem of divorce. Indeed it often happens and it seems to be a tradition for those who are married. Maybe they are destined to find another way, or maybe they never tried to be more considerate among each other. You really need to choose, does not mean you have no choice at all. Hence, don't ever be a slave to lust.

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